Contents
- 1 Making Your Sacred Wind-Down Space
- 1.1 The Golden Hour: An Hour Before Bedtime
- 1.2 Feed Yourself Wisely at Night
- 1.3 The Strength of Moving at Night
- 1.4 The Benefits of Oil Massage: Ancient Wisdom
- 1.5 The Evening Cleaning Ritual
- 1.6 Making Your Sleep Sanctuary
- 1.7 Letting Go of the Day: Mental Unwinding
- 1.8 The Night Before Starts the Morning
- 1.9 The Last Few Minutes Before Bed
- 1.10 Finding Your Own Rhythm
- 2 FAQs that are often asked
- 2.1 How long before I want to go to bed should I start my evening routine?
- 2.2 Can I check my phone “just once” before I go to bed?
- 2.3 What should I do if I finish my bedtime routine but still can’t sleep?
- 2.4 Does napping during the day hurt my sleep at night?
- 2.5 How long will it take for my sleep to get better after I start a bedtime routine?
Making Your Sacred Wind-Down Space
Hours before you go to bed, you can start the journey to getting better sleep. In today’s busy world, where phones buzz all the time and work follows you home, having a regular bedtime routine is a strong signal to your body that it’s time to switch from being awake to being asleep.
The Sleep Foundation research shows that having regular evening routines can greatly improve the quality of your sleep, making you feel refreshed and ready to face the day.
The Golden Hour: An Hour Before Bedtime
The hour before bed is your best chance to get your mind and body ready for a deep, restorative sleep. Start by turning down the lights in your home. This naturally tells your brain to make melatonin, the hormone that makes you sleepy. To make the room feel more peaceful, switch out harsh overhead lights for soft bedside lamps or candles.
Stay away from blue light-emitting devices like smartphones, tablets, and computers during this time. The Journal of Applied Physiology published a study that says blue light messes with your body’s natural circadian rhythm by making your brain think it’s still daytime.
Feed Yourself Wisely at Night
What you eat at night has a big effect on how well you sleep. People have long believed that warm milk with a little turmeric and cardamom can help you sleep better. This practice is supported by modern science because the combination contains substances that help you relax.
Don’t do these things that keep you from sleeping after sunset:
- Caffeine, like tea and chocolate
- Meals that are heavy and spicy
- Too many fluids that could keep you up at night by making you go to the bathroom
- Alcohol can help you fall asleep, but it can also mess up your deep sleep cycles.
Instead, try herbal teas like chamomile, ashwagandha, or valerian root. People have been using these teas for hundreds of years to help them sleep better. A small, light snack with foods high in tryptophan, like a banana or a small handful of nuts, may help your body make serotonin, which makes you sleepy.
The Strength of Moving at Night
Gentle movement in the evening helps get rid of the physical stress that builds up during the day. Stretching routines that focus on the spine, shoulders, and hips can greatly improve sleep by releasing tension in the muscles.
A sequence of 10 minutes could include:
- Soft forward folds
- Pose for kids
- Twists of the spine
- Pose with your legs up the wall
- Stretches for the neck that are gentle
The National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health says that these movements not only get the body ready for sleep, but they also calm the nervous system and stop the mind from racing.
The Benefits of Oil Massage: Ancient Wisdom
For hundreds of years, people have been using warm oil to massage themselves before taking a bath. This helps them relax deeply. Massaging the scalp, temples, and feet with sesame or coconut oil improves blood flow and soothes sensory nerve endings.
This habit sets a line between things you do during the day and things you do at night, telling your body that it’s time to sleep. The tactile experience brings the mind back to the present, stopping thought spirals that can keep you from falling asleep.
The Evening Cleaning Ritual
Taking a warm shower or bath 60 to 90 minutes before bed can help you fall asleep. Your body temperature drops when you get out of warm water, which is like how your body temperature drops when you start to sleep.
These aromatherapy options can help you relax while you bathe:
- Lavender essential oil, which has been shown to help people relax
- Petals of roses
- Sandalwood
- Jasmine
Gently pat yourself dry, then put on some loose, breathable cotton pajamas that will let your skin breathe all night.
Making Your Sleep Sanctuary
The way your bedroom is set up has a big effect on how well you sleep. Make sure your sleeping area has these features:
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- Cool temperature (18 to 20 degrees Celsius)
- Total darkness (think about getting blackout curtains)
- Little noise (use white noise if you need to)
- Air flow that is fresh
- Space that is clean and free of clutter
- Bedding that is comfortable and made of natural fibers
Researchers at Harvard Medical School who study sleep say that these environmental factors have a big effect on the structure and quality of sleep.
Letting Go of the Day: Mental Unwinding
Before you go to sleep, try to let go of the things that worry you and the things you have to do tomorrow. Keep a notebook next to your bed to write down any thoughts or tasks that are still on your mind. This easy habit stops your mind from going over these things in your head all night.
Think about adding a short meditation that focuses on being aware of your breath or progressive relaxation. The 4-7-8 technique (inhale for 4 counts, hold for 7, exhale for 8) can help your nervous system switch from “fight or flight” to “rest and digest” mode in just five minutes.
The Night Before Starts the Morning
Your choices the night before can make your morning more refreshing. Get your clothes ready for tomorrow, make your breakfast, and get your morning things in order the night before. This gets rid of decision fatigue when you wake up and makes room for a more mindful morning.
The Last Few Minutes Before Bed
Do something that really calms you down before you go to sleep:
- Reading books in print (not thrillers or work-related stuff)
- Listening to soft instrumental music
- Practicing gratitude reflection
- Easy breathing exercises
These last few minutes will affect the quality of your sleep and, by extension, how you feel when you wake up.
Finding Your Own Rhythm
Keep in mind that making a good bedtime routine is very personal. Try out these ideas to see which ones work best for your body and way of life. The key is to be consistent. Doing the same things every night trains your body and mind to see them as signs that it’s time to sleep.
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FAQs that are often asked
How long before I want to go to bed should I start my evening routine?
You should start your wind-down routine 60 to 90 minutes before you want to go to sleep. This gives your body enough time to go from being awake to being sleepy.
Can I check my phone “just once” before I go to bed?
Even a little bit of blue light can stop the body from making melatonin. If you have to check your device, do it in night mode and limit your screen time to the very beginning of your routine.
What should I do if I finish my bedtime routine but still can’t sleep?
If you haven’t fallen asleep in 20 minutes, get out of bed and do something quiet and not exciting, like reading in low light, until you feel sleepy. Only go back to bed when you feel sleepy.
Does napping during the day hurt my sleep at night?
Most people can take short naps (20–30 minutes) before 3 PM without having trouble sleeping at night. If you have trouble sleeping at night, though, you might want to stop taking naps during the day.
How long will it take for my sleep to get better after I start a bedtime routine?
Most people see real improvements after 1 to 2 weeks of regular practice. Keep in mind that sleep health grows through regular practice and repetition, not just one night of perfect sleep.
